We’d been wanting to visit our neighbors in their home-away-from-home harbor for weeks! We finally made it up to Northport for an evening together. Wallace immediately remembered (or did he just remember the photos?!) “driving” the boat with Mike last summer.
Sometimes it is enough just to be close to the people you love. Even when life is hard and you aren’t sure what to say. This year has brought a lot of difficult things to many of us, and tonight I am just humbly grateful for dear family reaching out and staying present.
On a lighter note, Aunt Debbie and cousin Frances taught the girls the game “Ha Ha!” Does anyone else do this? It made us all burst into contagious laughter!
Little house light with Grandmommy.
Golf lesson with Grandfather.
Wallace was captivated.
Ellen always finds the flowers.
More antics with Uncle Chris.
And Julien, contemplating amidst all the cousin chaos.
What you don’t see is how completely overwhelmed I am feeling on this night.
Photography is good at hiding as well as revealing.
“One of the tasks of true friendship is to listen compassionately and creatively to the hidden silences. Often secrets are not revealed in words, they lie concealed in the silence between the words or in the depth of what is unsayable between two people. In modern life there is an immense rush to expression. Sometimes the quality of what is expressed is superficial and immensely repetitive. A greater tolerance of silence is desirable, that fecund silence, which is the source of our most resonant language. The depth and substance of a friendship mirrors itself in the quality and shelter of the silence between two people.”
— Anam Cara by John O’Donohue, p. 112